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The Transformative Benefits of Enneagram Coaching

Enneagram coaching offers a profound path to self-awareness by helping you uncover the unconscious patterns that shape your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Unlike traditional therapy, which often focuses on managing symptoms or past events, Enneagram coaching goes straight to the root, illuminating the hidden motivations, internal conflicts, and egoic strategies that keep you stuck.

This work isn’t just about understanding your type. It’s about using that understanding to dissolve long-standing defenses, access greater emotional freedom, and rewire the patterns that quietly run your life. By mapping the terrain of your inner world with precision and compassion, Enneagram coaching reveals the “why” behind your struggles - quickly, clearly, and without judgment.

For those seeking transformational change, not just surface insight, Enneagram coaching is a direct and liberating invitation to wake up from your conditioning and reclaim the full intelligence of your heart, body, and mind.

☼ All Empathy Architects coaches are neuroaffirming as well as LGBTQIA2S+ affirming. We endeavor to always create an environment where all identities, ages, abilities, and histories are welcomed. ☼

Aaron's Approach
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Our Coaches

Coach Bios

  • Aaron Addonizio, MHR, MPA and EA co-founder, received her Master’s degree in Human Relations Counseling from the University of Oklahoma with an emphasis on personality psychology. Aaron is a certified Enneagram teacher and coach and utilizes her extensive knowledge of human systems to help people reach greater self-acceptance, compassion, and relief from persistent blockages and limitations. Using her 23 years of knowledge working with the Enneagram personality model, Aaron works with all of the types, on a variety of issues as identified by the client. As an Enneagram Type 6 herself, she is particularly adept at working with 6s or those with 6s in their lives. Aaron’s approach is warm, empathetic, and intuitive, and she believes through self-understanding and insight, anyone can achieve meaningful transformation in their personal lives and relationships.

    Sessions offered: Individual & couples

    Aaron is currently accepting new clients.

    Read about Aaron’s approach and book here

  • Monique Lacoste holds a PhD in Communication from the University of Washington. She taught communication for nearly two decades, specializing in interdisciplinary approaches to interpersonal communication and cultural analysis, before her passion for psychospiritual practices and personality psychology led her to become a certified Enneagram coach with Empathy Architects. Monique brings extensive experience working with people of all ages as a teacher and mentor, as well as a passion for helping individuals and the larger world grow through better awareness, compassion, and interpersonal understanding. Her approach is intuitive and client-centered, working with each individual to uncover the right path for addressing their specific needs. Monique is also particularly well-suited to working with neurodivergent clients and those with a history of trauma. She joined EA as a coach in 2024 and is delighted to be part of the team.

    Sessions offered: Typing Sessions & Individual Coaching

    Monique is currently accepting new clients.

    Book with Monique here

  • Maeve Stoltz, MFA received her Master of Fine Arts in Creative Writing from Carlow University and completed advanced coursework in creativity coaching with the Creativity Coaching Association. Prior to working with the Enneagram, Maeve was a writing mentor and developmental editor specializing in literary memoir. For over a decade, she coached new and advanced writers on the craft of writing and the deep explorations of self that are necessary to write insightful, poignant memoir. Her interest in self-exploration and personality psychology led her to study the Enneagram in 2018, eventually becoming a certified Enneagram coach and teacher with Empathy Architects. Maeve hopes to use her creative mentoring background to enhance her work with the Enneagram and guide clients to meaningful self-discoveries and personal growth.

    Sessions offered: Typing Sessions & Individual Coaching

    Read about Maeve’s approach and book here

  • Jessica Stevens, LPC, holds a master’s degree from the University of Oklahoma in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. She uses a solution-oriented, strengths-based approach and focuses on holistic wellness (mind, body, and spirit). She also specializes in the Enneagram personality theory and enjoys helping people to come to full acceptance of who they are as well as understand and love the important people in their life. She enjoy working with college students, adults and couples. She can help with a variety of problems, tackling them through an Enneagram lens, including stress management, anxiety, depression, life direction, emotion management and interpersonal problems. Whether you want to learn more about loving and accepting yourself or you want to deepen or improve your relationships to your partner, Jess has you covered!

    Sessions offered: Individual & couples

    Jess is currently accepting new clients.

    Book with Jess here

Empathy Architects provides coaching services. Our coaches are not licensed therapists*, psychologists or healthcare professionals. Coaching services do not replace the care of mental health professionals. If you are dealing with serious mental health issues, please seek counseling from a licensed professional.

*While Jessica Stevens is a licensed therapist, she is only able to practice therapy in Oklahoma. Her coaching services will differ from therapy, so please keep this in mind when booking.